Anonymous: Please give me an advice: would you pick your boyfriend over your friends? Why or why not? :\|
Awh sure :) well i just got out of a relationship so i’ve actually learned a lot.
There were cases where i’ve chosen my boyfriend over my friends, but not seriously. More like, at lunch I would eat with him, only because he’d really want it to just be us, when i’d try to make him meet my friends. You can’t help it sometimes when you’re in love. It feels like that person means the world to you so you’d do anything for them right? And that they’d do the same back?
Make sure that you know what you’re getting yourself into.
Because when you completely leave all your friends for one guy, if he ends up leaving you, who are you going to run to? Remember one guy isn’t always important, and i knooooow how it feels that you’re just so in love with them you can’t give them up. I’ve been there.. It’s normal so don’t feel stupid if you get hurt in the end, we learn. Remember it’s not a mistake unless you learn from it.
So there’s 2 cases,
if your friends aren’t understanding, and aren’t REAL friends to you, but you KNOW that your boyfriend is REAL to you, then don’t go with your friends. It’s better to stay with the person who cares about you instead of a bunch of fakes. And you’ll find your real friends.
if your friends are trying to help you and they just care about you and want the best for you and ARE real friends, dont leave them… You’re just taking people for granted like that. Make sure your boyfriend is someone who’s understanding as well. If he has to make you choose? Don’t be with someone like that, if he loves you he should understand that there’s more people in your life than just him. I’ve learned, to only value people who value you the most. Don’t waste your time on someone who just wants something from you.
I hoped this helped. :)