尊重-Respect.

If I could go back in time. I would.

4 months ago on January 31 at 04:50pm || 1 note
Anonymous: Please give me an advice: would you pick your boyfriend over your friends? Why or why not? :\

Awh sure :) well i just got out of a relationship so i’ve actually learned a lot.

There were cases where i’ve chosen my boyfriend over my friends, but not seriously. More like, at lunch I would eat with him, only because he’d really want it to just be us, when i’d try to make him meet my friends. You can’t help it sometimes when you’re in love. It feels like that person means the world to you so you’d do anything for them right? And that they’d do the same back?

Make sure that you know what you’re getting yourself into.

Because when you completely leave all your friends for one guy, if he ends up leaving you, who are you going to run to? Remember one guy isn’t always important, and i knooooow how it feels that you’re just so in love with them you can’t give them up. I’ve been there.. It’s normal so don’t feel stupid if you get hurt in the end, we learn. Remember it’s not a mistake unless you learn from it.

So there’s 2 cases,

if your friends aren’t understanding, and aren’t REAL friends to you, but you KNOW that your boyfriend is REAL to you, then don’t go with your friends. It’s better to stay with the person who cares about you instead of a bunch of fakes. And you’ll find your real friends.

if your friends are trying to help you and they just care about you and want the best for you and ARE real friends, dont leave them… You’re just taking people for granted like that. Make sure your boyfriend is someone who’s understanding as well. If he has to make you choose? Don’t be with someone like that, if he loves you he should understand that there’s more people in your life than just him. I’ve learned, to only value people who value you the most. Don’t waste your time on someone who just wants something from you.

I hoped this helped. :)

4 months ago on January 31 at 03:45am || 0 notes

Miss my tumblr friends.

4 months ago on January 31 at 03:10am || 0 notes

“It’s true the people we meet shape us. But the people we don’t meet shape us also, often more because we have imagined them so vividly. There are people we yearn for but never seem to meet.”

   — ― Simon Van Booy, The Secret Lives of People in Love (via ahauntedmind, leopoldgursky) (via anthonytherat) (via joycakes)
5 months ago on January 13 at 08:29pm || 1,440 notes

→ RONDARYLJOSE: In a relationship, married or not... You should read this.

rondjose:

Marriage.

“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a…

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5 months ago on December 30 at 08:01pm || 53,291 notes

I need a group of older brothers

My life would be so much more complete…

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6 months ago on December 11 at 08:39pm || 2,637 notes

→ Written In The Stars: Her problem was that she cares "Too much"

trungphan:

She cared even when she was hurting, she was there for people who took her kindness for granted, she cared about people who didn’t care about her, she’s the girl who was there for others even when no one was there for her, when she was at her worst, when she felt like her world was starting to…

6 months ago on December 11 at 08:38pm || 131 notes

“May your neighbors respect, trouble neglect you, angels protect you, and heaven accept you”

   — Drizzy Drake
6 months ago on December 09 at 02:19pm || 0 notes
jon-egbert: kidofmischief: sherlocked-inside-the-tardis: mrpondismypatronus: deduce-me-e: gomenne: girlthrualookingglass: Julio Diaz has a daily routine. Every night, the 31-year-old social worker ends his hour-long subway commute to the Bronx one stop early, just so he can eat at his favorite diner. But one night last month, as Diaz stepped off the No. 6 train and onto a nearly empty platform, his evening took an unexpected turn. He was walking toward the stairs when a teenage boy approached and pulled out a knife. “He wants my money, so I just gave him my wallet and told him, ‘Here you go,’” Diaz says. As the teen began to walk away, Diaz told him, “Hey, wait a minute. You forgot something. If you’re going to be robbing people for the rest of the night, you might as well take my coat to keep you warm.” The would-be robber looked at his would-be victim, “like what’s going on here?” Diaz says. “He asked me, ‘Why are you doing this?’” Diaz replied: “If you’re willing to risk your freedom for a few dollars, then I guess you must really need the money. I mean, all I wanted to do was get dinner and if you really want to join me … hey, you’re more than welcome. “You know, I just felt maybe he really needs help,” Diaz says. Diaz says he and the teen went into the diner and sat in a booth. “The manager comes by, the dishwashers come by, the waiters come by to say hi,” Diaz says. “The kid was like, ‘You know everybody here. Do you own this place?’” “No, I just eat here a lot,” Diaz says he told the teen. “He says, ‘But you’re even nice to the dishwasher.’” Diaz replied, “Well, haven’t you been taught you should be nice to everybody?” “Yea, but I didn’t think people actually behaved that way,” the teen said. Diaz asked him what he wanted out of life. “He just had almost a sad face,” Diaz says. The teen couldn’t answer Diaz — or he didn’t want to. When the bill arrived, Diaz told the teen, “Look, I guess you’re going to have to pay for this bill ‘cause you have my money and I can’t pay for this. So if you give me my wallet back, I’ll gladly treat you.” The teen “didn’t even think about it” and returned the wallet, Diaz says. “I gave him $20 … I figure maybe it’ll help him. I don’t know.” Diaz says he asked for something in return — the teen’s knife — “and he gave it to me.” Afterward, when Diaz told his mother what happened, she said, “You’re the type of kid that if someone asked you for the time, you gave them your watch.” “I figure, you know, if you treat people right, you can only hope that they treat you right. It’s as simple as it gets in this complicated world.” FAITH IN HUMANITY RESTORED ALL THE SLOW CLAPS GO TO YOU my forensics teacher heard this guy on the radio and he played his speech for us. i almost about cried. this guy is amazing for what he did. 
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